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write a childrens bookThe Owly Trilogy comprises 3 books in the Owly Series of childrens books which I wrote for my own kids Michael and Emer. Each story is available on Kindle while the trilogy is on Kindle and print through Amazon. Click on any of the links across the page to go direct to Amazon.

As a mother, I strongly believe we need to nurture our children but yet equip them with life skills that will help develop them personally. These books are positive, uplifting and teach children through story about bravery, overcoming challenges, looking out for each other, helping each other, appreciating all the good things in our lives, taking care of our environment and making the world a better place to live.

Meaning Behind The Books

  • The bunch of unlikely forest animals that came together represent the diverse cross section of people children will meet in life, different personalities, problems etc.
  • Owly the main character represents the inner wisdom of a child and about bringing out the best in themselves
  • Victor Vulture “appears” to be a bad guy but appearances can be deceptive and sometimes when we mess up there is a good and valid reason behind it
  • Magic Medicine Tree represent the healing power of nature and about looking after our environment and the world around us.
  • Spirit of the Forest represents the life force all around us and is an unseen spirit that guides and looks over the forest and all its inhabitants. It won’t help unless asked!

childrens books1. Owly Saves The Magic Medicine Tree

A heartwarming, uplifting and positive story of loyalty, friendship, adventure and team work, where a bunch of unlikely forest friends go on the adventure of a life time. Together, they overcome the beady eyed sharp clawed Victor Vulture, meet the mysterious Spirit of the Forest and save the Magical Medicine Tree. The creatures learn so much about themselves and each other, experience a whole new world, learn to make the magic of the forest come alive, and learn many more important lessons that any child will enjoy. It is a story for young and old and will bring a smile to your face as you see where your imagination will take you.

kidsbooks2. Owly And The Enchanted Forest

Owly and friends make an enchanted forest home. See the magic come alive as they work together to turn their forest into a place full of fun, magic, color and adventure. It truly becomes a magical place to live but something will always happen and they are called to protect their forest home. Watch how they work together to save their forest from sneaky, very dangerous badgers who try to attack and won’t back down, but the animals have other plans! See the Magic Medicine Tree comes to the rescue once again and how the animals use everything they learned from the Spirit of the Forest and Magic Medicine Tree to survive a very scary moment. Witness what happens the night of a terrifying storm and smile when you see what happens to Victor Vulture! This is a heartwarming story about making the world a better place to live in, helping each other and looking out for each other, overcoming the odds and challenges that life throws as us and really making happy ever after stories come true! Believe the unbelievable, imagination is everything!

3. Spirit Of The Forest Helps Owly And Friends

best kids bookOwly helps a sad little butterfly find new wings and at the same time helps her see how wonderful she really is, even without the wings she dreams about! As the day of a fantastic party gets closer, the whole forest and its creatures are put in danger by hunters. See how the Spirit of the Forest, the Magic Medicine Tree, Owly and Victor Vulture bring the whole forest together to protect itself and make life very unpleasant for the hunters! Watch what happens! Just when it looks like nothing else can go wrong, a child goes missing. See how the Spirit of the Forest reunites the child with his Dad. Of course its back again to the fantastic magical party for all the animals to celebrate everything that is wonderful about the Enchanted Forest and the creatures that live there!

inspirational short storiesInspirational short stories aren't for everyone but they mean so much to me. Here is why!

With so much choice nowadays, we are bombarded on all levels and pulled in all directions, so much so, that our concentration can be shot to pieces, and we are uncertain of where our focus is, or even where it should be, at any particular time.

Aren't we all guilty of setting out to read something inspirational, only to get distracted by something else, and then we lose momentum and find it hard to get this back?

I know I have!

Anyway, here is my top 5 list and what I believe inspirational stories teach us.

1. Think in terms of possibility

They teach us that anything and everything is possible and that by allowing ourselves to be open to POSSIBILITIES, we begin to see things in a new light. Sure we may still be afraid or have feelings of doubt or anxiety, but when you think in terms of possibilities, you open your mind to a new way of thinking.

2.Roadblocks don't have to be dead ends

Inspirational stories teach us that so many others overcome all sorts of road blocks in their lives, some physical, some emotional, some mental and some spiritual, but the thing is they overcame! Not overnight, but by changing their way of thinking and looking at a situation and by living their life accordingly!

3.Make The Change

Stories with inspirational messages, give us ideas of how me can make some changes in our lives. Sometimes we are stuck and cannot see a way forward or even away back! By reading and following along with an inspirational story, you may get the answer you were looking for, set off a thought process that will lead you to moving out of the problem and towards a solution, or at least towards a lesser problem, or you might just get the help and encouragement you needed to revisit the problem with a fresh pair of eyes and a revised outlook.

4. Can you take one step forward, to the side or back?

You will come to realize that life is a series of short journeys, and you don't need to be able to perform acrobatics to get from where you are to where you want to be. A series of short steps will still get you there, maybe not as fast, but once you keep the momentum going, and move with the end as your focal point, you will most probably get there, or at least close enough so you can re-evaluate to see if this is still what you really want!

5.Stronger Than You Think

Inspirational stories teach us that we are actually stronger than we think. We may have lost faith in ourselves, but often we give up on ourselves just when success is around the corner. It is by hanging in there, maybe changing route a little, but by hanging in there none the less, that we edge closer and closer to our goal. Even if it may seem we are making no progress, by just being in the moment and being open to receiving help and guidance from others, we may find we are suddenly in the right place at the right time, and circumstances come about to open doors of possibility for us.

Orla Kelly

Theme: Inspirational Short Stories

kiss Find the best times to really interact with your kids, to get into their headspace and to see what has shown up in their day or see what has been building up to an "event" in their life.

It can serve as a way to download whatever has been troubling them and to sort things out. Otherwise the chances are they will try to sort it out in their head when the lights go out and they may lie awake or pay you a visit in the erly hours saying they had a bad dream or can't sleep.

Sometimes reading stories can trigger something in a child that reminds them of an unresolved issue, or it may relax them enough that they thoughts come out in their own good time.

Even if things are okay, it is good to incorporate the following into your time with your child.

1. Tell them they are in a safe place where they will come to no harm. Some kids find it hard to switch off at night. Something may have happened and they feel threatened or unsure of themselves. Reminding them they are in a safe protected space is very important.

2. Tell them they are loved and that will never change except grow. Feeling loved does not come from the amount of material things you give to a child but comes from the presence of being their unconditionally for them and from forming a deep bond or connection with them. Sometimes you may use tough love but whatever lesson that a child will learn once it comes in a loving nurturing way, will ultimately have the desired effect.

3. Tell them that you are there for them no matter what happens, even if they are at fault or have done something they shouldn't have done. We all mess up and kids do test boundaries and push them every now and then. Its one way how they learn to interact with the world around them and see where and how they fit in. They are not at the stage where they can rationalize like adults and they do not have our experience to know what will most likely cause problems or more importantly the consequences of these problems. So it is important to help first before allocating blame! Solve the problem first then dissect and review afterwards. Easier said than done, I know!

10288799_838885396126226_7886228772885837026_n4. Tell them it is okay to ask for help or report something serious because that is the right thing to do. It is important to keep the channels of communication open no matter what happens so children feel they can approach with any troubes they are having. Imagine if the fear of punishment was worse than them confiding  their worries. They would feel helpless, trapped, isolated and alone. No-one wants this and no-one benefits either.

5. Tell them different things they did to make you proud and explain why. This is a great way to end the night,but can and should be done anytime, filling their thoughts with positivity, not bloated ego just positivity, there is a difference. Explaining what they did that was so wonderful, even small things is a good way of re-inforcing positive behaviours and outcomes and helps prioritize in a childs mind, more positive events to model. Orla Kelly